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The Often-Overlooked Interview Advantage: Good Grooming
There are dozens of factors that affect whether or not you land a job: from your work and expertise to your education and your personality. In addition to these weighty factors, your appearance also counts, in particular good grooming.
Fashion stylist Colin Megaro, the founder of Planet Style Concierge, says that today, "Grooming standards are definitely higher across the board." Megaro, whose company offers style analysis, personal-shopping services, and more, offers up these tips to make sure you're good to go at your next interview.
1. Good grooming is standard, no matter the industry. If you work in the music industry, you may think you can push the boundaries of good grooming -- but you'd be wrong. "Standards do not vary from industry to industry," according to Megaro. "No matter what you do for work you should always be well-groomed. Take some pride in yourself and always present the best you."
2. Nail it! Men and women should always be manicured, according to Megaro. "That's right, gentlemen! A manicure and a good buff go a long way," he states. Megaro, who styles both men and women, advises women to choose neutral colors for nails. "Bright red, black, or jeweled nails are not appropriate for the workplace."
3. Don't look shady with a "five o'clock shadow." The rugged look probably isn't best for the office, either. He says, "Five o'clock shadows aren't OK -- even after five o'clock. If you're heading to an interview from a current job or even from home, schedule it so you have time to wash your face, shave, and make sure your suit is fresh and wrinkle-free."
Facial hair can be fashionable, but it's probably best for men not to rock the ZZ Top look. "If you must have it, it needs to be short and well groomed," he cautions.
4. Put your best foot forward. "Women MUST have a pedicure if they're wearing open-toe shoes, but even if you're a man, your shoes shouldn't look as if you regularly walk on hot coals (unless that's the job you're pursuing)," Megaro counsels. He recommends that shoes always be polished with proper soles. If you scuff a shoe, he reveals, "A Sharpie the color of your shoe can save the day!"
5. Wear it well. Make sure your clothes reflect the job you're pursuing. "When dressing for an interview, research the company and dress accordingly. If you are interviewing at a bank, wear a classic suit with a beautiful tie or scarf. If it's a media company, you have a bit more freedom. Aim for a more modern suit with a great briefcase/bag. You should show your personality and individualism when it's appropriate," he states.
6. Breathe easy. Fresh breath is a priority if you're going on an interview. Megaro points out, "You don't want to smell bad breath on other people and, trust me, they don't want to smell it on you!" He recommends brushing your teeth, carrying breath mints, and keeping mouthwash in your desk or breath strips in your pocket.
7. Use scented products sparingly. If you're wearing cologne or perfume, exercise caution. "Yes, it can be worn, but please do not bathe yourself in it. Remember that some people are sensitive or allergic to smells. Also, no one wants to walk into a wall of cologne," Megaro says.
8. Act natural. Aim for a daytime appearance, especially when pursuing an office job. Megaro, whose company also offers wardrobe consultation and shopping tours, urges job seekers, "Avoid wearing too much makeup or overpowering nail color, and keep hair color to natural tones. We don't need to see bright colors, over-done highlights, or bad wigs."
9. Tress to impress. Beware of overdone hair. Megaro says, "Too much, whether it be color or product, is never attractive!" If you're a bit too coiffed, you may appear high-maintenance, and, possibly, out of touch.
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6 Time-Saver Gifts for Busy Professionals
"There are just not enough hours in the day." Who hasn't made or heard this complaint from a coworker, partner or friend who has too much to do?
All of us have. So, with the holidays coming up, there's no better gift than something that will make day-to-day tasks at work or home simpler, faster, and less stressful.
Below are six time-saving products along with examples of how much time your gift can save a working professional on your gift list. Based upon annual salary information provided by salary database PayScale.com, you'll see how much money the greater time efficiency from your gift will earn, too.
1. CardScan Executive -- $259.99
Time saved = 1.5 hours for every 100 business cards
Though everything else seems to have gone digital, nothing can replace the old-fashioned business card. But the contact information needs to make the digital leap. CardScan Executive quickly scans business cards and synchronizes the information with all of your contact management systems. It completes 15-30 business cards in a minute, while you work on other things.
So, if it would normally take one minute to enter the information on each card, for every 100 cards, that can equal about $30 in time saved for an experienced executive assistant with a median annual salary of $43,000. Any business professional or job seeker will find this a great gift and one that is also sure to reduce clutter after business meetings, interviews, and networking events.
2. MissNowMrs.com -- $29.95
Time saved = 13 hours
A professional woman who wants to change her name after getting married usually spends about 13 hours figuring out the process, according to Danielle Tate, founder of MissNowMrs.com. This site provides an alternative to bureaucratic confusion with a simple questionnaire tailored to the bride's location. When the bride has finished, she prints out the correct package of completed forms to sign and then submit to government offices, banks, and all the places that need to know her new last name.
"You don't have to make too much an hour for $29.95 to make sense instead of wasting a day or two off work getting it done," says founder Danielle Tate. For an elementary school teacher earning $42,000 a year, those 13 hours are worth about $260.
3. Bento for iPhone -- $4.99; Bento 3 (Desktop version) -- $49.00
Time saved = 1 hour per week
The Bento App for iPhone is a one-stop organizer and tracker for all of your files. This app easily stores and can sync your files up with the Bento 3 (or earlier version) desktop program. It comes with a wide variety of templates, and it is built to be flexible so you can create your own storage templates. It's hard to find anyone who couldn't use this app.
A stay-at-home parent can use it to plan meals, track holiday gifts, or plan parties, while a marketing project manager can use it to connect projects back to specific customers, customize internal data, and track the progress of the team. This application allows you to keep all relevant files linked together, so you spend less time toggling between deep folders, potentially saving you an hour per week with the added efficiency. For a marketing project manager earning just under $60,000 annually, that time is equivalent to almost $1,500 over the course of a year.
4. Timed Coffee Maker -- $80-200
Time saved = 75 minutes per week
"One of the simplest [time savers] I recommend for people is to get a coffee pot with a timer," says Elizabeth D. Bowman, productivity consultant and president of Innovatively Organized, a professional organizing company. A good coffee maker with a timer allows you to set everything up at night and have fresh coffee ready in the morning -- and you don't have to spend 15 minutes at your local coffee shop every morning on the way to work. That can add up to 75 minutes every work week.
Models range widely in price, but you can find a good model for under $100 if your budget this year is tight. And although it may not be paid time that's saved, the equivalent cost at work for an early-rising construction manager earning about $62,000 a year is about $35 per week.
5. AP Stylebook App -- $28.99
Time saved = 5 minutes per week
AP style is used by most professional writers and journalists as a punctuation and spelling guide for written work. Many marketing and communication experts also use it for branding material. The printed version is no pocket-sized manual, however, and most journalists and writers don't spend all their time in one spot. Enter AP Stylebook App -- this app gives you a mobile version of the stylebook so you don't have to wait to get back to the office to maintain your branding guidelines when "tweeting" on the go.
If this app saves just five minutes per week for a journalist earning about $43,000, over the course of the year, that time is worth about $90 -- at least enough to get a nice massage.
6. zBoost Cell Phone Signal Booster -- $179.99-$399.99
Time saved = 5 hours per month in saved commute time
More and more professionals are doing at least part of their work outside of the traditional office. Whether that's from the freeway or your home office, cell phone signals don't always reach your location as clearly as desired. Fortunately, zBoost has a variety of products that can be set up in your home or car to improve signals by one or two bars, drastically reducing dropped or missed calls for a radius 1,200-2,400 square feet, depending on the model.
This product saves time for any professional who can reduce a commute by working from home with a clearer signal. For an average IT project manager earning about $70,000 per year, the gift will pay back its worth in time saved in just under six weeks.
Source: All salary data is from PayScale.com. The salaries listed are median, annual salaries for full-time workers with 3-5 years of experience and include any bonuses, commissions, or profit sharing. Hourly rates are calculated by dividing the yearly salary by 2080.
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The Wrong Way to Relocate
You finally landed the job; the only issue is that it requires you to relocate. This can sound very exciting, but consider the reasons why you want to relocate for the job before committing to it. The three scenarios below are not recommended for relocating:
Relocating to Escape
Life is unpredictable and can deal anyone a bad hand from time to time, but that's not a good reason to up and leave what you have. Take a step back from yourself and take a look at the big picture to resolve those internal (and external) conflicts before moving.
A new job in a new city sounds tempting when you're feeling down and out, but think twice before leaping. Escaping will feel like everything has changed, but once everything you left behind catches up, you will quickly see that nothing has changed but the scenery.
Relocating for Just a 'Job'
Although the market has been picking up, it can still be pretty difficult to get into your respected industry regardless of where you live. Before deciding to relocate, ask yourself, "Is this position a job or a career?" A job is something you go to every day because you have to. A career is something that fulfills, challenges, and invigorates you daily.
Would you rather relocate for a "job" that pays the bills and gives you nothing to feel good about, or a "career" that makes you happy (and just so happens to pay the bills)?
Relocating with Little to No Money
Your new position may pay you a great salary to live comfortably, but will your first paycheck arrive in time for the bills? It is important to have a good 4-digit nest egg saved to cover the cost of your move, current bills, and new expenses.
Create a realistic budget to be positive that you will be making enough money to afford the cost of living in your new town, too. Regardless of your current finances, continue (or start) saving money once you are settled into your new town and career, just in case.
There are many other details to consider before moving for a new career (family, friends, workplace vibe, location, etc.) but these three points are imperative to consider before committing to a new life.
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Tips for Tipping This Holiday Season
For most U.S. workers who held onto their jobs in 2009, wages remained relatively flat compared to 2008. But, for those who work in service jobs and rely on tips for up to 70 percent of their income, it was a year of lean times and extra-tight budgets.
PayScale, an online salary database, just completed its 2009 Tipping Report and discovered that some of the folks who can least afford a pay cut -- hairstylists, delivery drivers, waiters/waitresses -- took a hit this year.
"Plenty of waiters and waitresses have been laid off. But, meanwhile, those who have kept their jobs have seen a 10 percent hourly pay cut. The only other field worse than that is investment bankers, and they're looking forward to an annual bonus," says Al Lee, director of quantitative analysis at PayScale.com.
Lee's advice to the rest of us? Tip as well as you can. "Remember, when you're at a restaurant, you as the customer are more like the staff's employer than the restaurant's owner. You're paying 70 percent of your wait staff's income."
So, with that thought in mind, we present to you the median hourly wages and tips for 10 service jobs and offer some recommendations on how to say thanks.
1. Bartender
Base pay per hour: $7.30
Tips per hour: $9.60
Total hourly income from tips: 57%
This service provider is fortunate that after a few rounds of peppermint schnapps, most people's purse strings are a little looser.
Typical tip: 10 to15 percent of the bar bill.
2. Waiter/Waitress
Base pay per hour: $4.00
Tips per hour: $8.60
Total hourly income from tips: 68%
Most folks know to tip their wait staff. Be ready to tip more if you spring for dessert and coffee after dinner.
Typical tip: 15 to 20 percent of bill. If you receive excellent service or if it is a 4-star restaurant or you're with a large party, a tip of 20 percent or more is recommended.
3. Massage Therapist
Base pay per hour: $25.50
Tips per hour: $4.80
Total hourly income from tips: 16%
Flying across the country in a middle seat or repeatedly lifting your grandchildren up for a cuddle this holiday season may leave you craving a massage. How should you tip your favorite masseuse?
Typical tip: 10 to 20 percent of the total.
4. Hairstylist
Base pay per hour: $11.30
Tips per hour: $3.00
Total hourly income from tips: 21%
You hope your hairstylist leaves you feeling fabulous for all of your holiday parties. If so, help them feel fabulous with an appropriate tip.
Typical tip: 15 percent of the total.
5. Concierge
Base pay per hour: $12.00
Tips per hour: $1.30
Total hourly income from tips: 10%
Despite the tough economy, you may have saved up for dinner out, a show, and a night at a hotel. Want your hotel concierge to plan your evening for you? Be sure to give a tip as a thank you.
Typical tip: $5 to $10 is average, more for special services or favors.
6. Doorman
Base pay per hour: $10.40
Tips per hour: $5.00
Total hourly income from tips: 32%
Not only does this person look great in a long winter coat and white gloves, they help you feel special when they open your cab door or bring your luggage to your room. How much do they deserve for giving first-class treatment?
Typical tip: $1 dollar or more for help with luggage or finding a taxi on the street. For an annual tip, anywhere from $25 to $100, depending on your building or how much you use their services.
7. Parking Attendant
Base pay per hour: $8.60
Tips per hour: $2.60
Total hourly income from tips: 23%
If a valet saves you from needing to walk 10 blocks from a restaurant to your parking spot in the snow up a hill, what do you owe them?
Typical tip: For a single evening, $1 to $2 depending on how far they travel to get your car. If you park regularly at a garage, an annual tip of $10 to $20 per attendant is recommended.
8. Newspaper Delivery Driver
Base pay per hour: $37.70
Tips per hour: $1.90
Total hourly income from tips: 5%
The newspaper delivery driver is up before your automatic drip coffee maker. What's appropriate for making sure you don't have to walk too far in your bathrobe to pick up your paper?
Typical tip: An annual holiday tip is appropriate; $15 to $25 for daily delivery or $5 to $15 for weekend delivery only.
9. Pizza Delivery Driver
Base pay per hour: $6.70
Tips per hour: $5.00
Total hourly income from tips: 43%
Did you know that your pizza delivery driver gets nearly half of his or her income from your tip? Also, if it is an extra busy night at the restaurant, the driver may have helped to make your pizza.
Typical tip: 15 percent of the total for a typical delivery. Tip a minimum of $3 if the bill is under $20.
10. Taxi Driver
Base pay per hour: $13.20
Tips per hour: $3.10
Total hourly income from tips: 22%
Taxi drivers do expect a tip, especially if they helped you with your luggage. Remember to give them something extra on top of what the meter says.
Typical tip: 15 percent of fare, $1 per bag up to 5 bags, $2 per bag for 5 or more bags or if bags are very heavy (over 50 lbs. each.)
More from PayScale's 2009 Tipping Report:
- The three job titles with the highest median hourly tips are gaming dealers ($13.00), sommeliers ($12.30), and bartenders ($9.60).
- Among those in management, bar, hotel floor and night club managers have the largest percentage of their income come from tips: 40 percent, 35 percent, and 23 percent respectively.
- Busboys saw a significant rise in hourly tips (an 85 percent increase from last year). However their hours per week fell dramatically and thus their total take-home income fell by 35 percent even with this tip increase.
- Gaming dealers report the largest tips at $13.00 per hour, while bicycle mechanics report the lowest tips at $0.20 per hour.
- In the hotel industry, hotel housekeepers earn the lowest median hourly tips ($0.40 per hour), while hotel floor managers earn the highest ($6.90 per hour).
Sources: Median base pay per hour, median tip per hour and total hourly income from tips data are provided by Payscale.com. Tipping data are provided by The Original Tipping Page and tipthepizzaguy.com.
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Resolutions for Getting a Job in 2010
The Recruiter Roundtable is a monthly feature that collects career and job-seeking advice from a group of recruiting experts throughout the United States. The question we put before our panel this month is:
With unemployment rates at record levels in many parts of the country, what would you say are the one or two things job seekers MUST do in order to succeed in landing a job in 2010?
Exhaust All Options
Exhaust every resource at your disposal. Let members of your network know the type of job you seek and work with a recruiter that specializes in your field. Refine your resume and look for opportunities, such as courses or seminars, to enhance your skills and industry expertise.
Also, in your resume and interviews with hiring managers, stay focused on how you can help the prospective employer. The onus is on you to show why you are the right person for the job and will be a valuable contributor to the success of the organization, making it imperative to customize your resume for each position and research companies thoroughly before submitting your application materials and meeting with them.
-- DeLynn Senna, executive director of North American permanent placement services, Robert Half International
Do Thorough Research
If you're interviewing with a company, diligently research all aspects of their products, company strategy, executive team, and latest organizational changes. When you are in a situation with a recruiter or company representative, be yourself and don't be nervous. But be able to talk about the topics that interest you with passion.
-- Ross Pasquale, recruiting/sourcing consultant, Monday Ventures
Tailor the Resume and Network
In order to land a job in 2010, you will need to network and tailor your resume specifically for each position.
Think of everyone who might be able to help you -- family, friends, social acquaintances, former business associates, leave no stone unturned. Don't be shy! You can get the word out without being obnoxious or sounding desperate. Join a professional organization and attend the meetings. You'll get useful information and leads by networking with those who are active in your field of expertise.
Create a general resume that can be customized. Be aware of keywords. Use bullet points for a cleaner look and just state the facts. Recruiters will not spend time on a resume that contains errors and doesn't have a professional appearance.
-- Debbie Dean, recruiter, Wells Fargo
Go for a Realistic Match
Job seekers must remain focused on opportunities that are a solid match to their background, skills, and abilities. While it might be tempting to apply for every open position out there, a targeted search will be a much more efficient use of job-search resources and will give the best chance of success. A hiring manager's number one question is, "Why did this person apply to my job posting?" To be a successful finalist, you need to have a better response than, "It was open."
-- Noah Apodaca, lead recruiter for staff at the University of California, Irvine
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3 Things Your Boss Does Well
Have you ever had a boss that you just didn't click with? No matter how hard you tried, it seemed like you were working with someone from another planet?
According to David Keirsey, Ph.D., author of the best-selling book, "Please Understand Me," much discord in the workplace is caused by differences in people's personalities. There are variations in behavior and attitude that trigger in each of us a common response: When we see people who are different from us, we conclude that others are "sick, or stupid, or bad, or crazy."
Keirsey's research shows that people fit into four basic personalities, (or what he calls, "The Four Temperaments"), each with their own distinct characteristics, strengths, and foibles. What that means is that there is a pretty good chance (75%) that you are a different temperament than your boss? little wonder then, that you may not always see things the same way they do!
The key to getting along with colleagues, and especially with your boss, is to understand the motivations of their personality type. If you better understand what makes them tick -- what they're good at -- their behavior may make better sense to you. And rather than bothering you, you may find you are able to benefit from their strengths and even appreciate them.
This article presents three strengths for each of the four temperaments -- you might recognize these qualities in your boss, and this recognition may be that critical insight you need to help you better mesh your skills with your boss's -- and therefore, be able to work together more effectively. Keirsey labels the four types the Guardian, the Rational, the Artisan, and the Idealist. Here are brief descriptions of each temperament (see if you can recognize your boss in one of the descriptions), and three strengths to look for.
Guardian Bosses
Is your boss a stickler for following the rules? Does he take pride in being dependable? Does he prefer a structured environment, with well-understood roles, responsibilities, and a clear hierarchy? If so, your boss is likely a Guardian (and he's in good company, as Guardians make up more than 50% of managers in most U.S. corporations). Examples of Guardian leaders include Warren Buffet, President George H.W. Bush, and Suze Orman.
- Guardians have great strength in dealing with and managing logistical matters. With a Guardian boss, meetings will be run on time, schedules will be met, and materials will be in place when and where they are needed.
- Guardian leaders are "traditionalists," for they carefully (and quite sentimentally) preserve and nurture the traditions of the institutions they belong to. They know that strong traditions give a sense of belonging and permanence to employees and clients alike.
- Guardians pride themselves on being dependable, helpful, and hard working. They put effort into bringing stability into the workplace. Your Guardian boss will shoulder his or her share of the load as a matter of conscience.
Rational Bosses
Is your boss more concerned with the "big picture" than the details of your project? Does she tend to be a "hands-off" boss, sometimes even seeming stand-offish? Does she seem to not care about the way things "have always been done," looking for new ways even when the old way doesn't appear broken? If so, you likely have a Rational boss. Although Rationals are rare (less than 10% of the population) they are disproportionately represented in management in companies, especially as you go up the corporate ladder. Examples of Rational leaders include President Barack Obama, Bill Gates, and Hillary Clinton.
- Rationals are the problem solving temperament, particularly if the problem has to do with the many complex systems that make up the world around us. With a Rational boss, you are sure to never lack for a strategic vision of how your group will best help the company meet its objectives.
- They pride themselves on being ingenious, independent, and strong-willed. Known for being skilled thinkers, Rationals are generally even-tempered and goal-oriented. They often make great mentors because they notice, appreciate, and acknowledge skills and talents in employees without regard to social or organizational barriers such as seniority, gender, or job title.
- Ever on the lookout for the most efficient means to achieve their ends, Rationals keep their eyes open to new possibilities. They approach problems with the attitude that whatever exists presently can be changed, if there is a better way. With a Rational boss, your group is highly unlikely to ever stagnate.
Artisan Bosses
Is your boss an eternal optimist? Does he get bored quickly with the details? Does he seem to have a lot of spontaneous ideas or plans of action? If you work in a sales or customer service department, you may be especially likely to have an Artisan boss. Examples of Artisan leaders include Donald Trump, Rosie O'Donnell, and Presidents Ronald Reagan and Bill Clinton.
- Artisans pride themselves on being unconventional, bold, and spontaneous. Their combination of realism and risk-taking can make these individuals troubleshooting leaders. When you or your group is faced with an emergency, your boss is one of the best resources you can wish for.
- They are more present to reality than the other temperaments, and this gives them a big advantage when dealing with people. This makes Artisans top negotiators. When you need resources from other groups, your boss can be a great asset in navigating the give-and-take to get you what you need.
- Artisans are great at reading people for what they mean, as opposed to what they are saying. Anytime are going into a situation where people may have hidden agendas or ulterior motives, your Artisan boss can be a great asset in determining what is really going on.
Idealist Bosses
Is your boss most concerned with the well-being of the team and its members? Does she do their best to promote harmony and reduce conflict, eschewing competition amongst team members? Is she less concerned with details, but more interested in how "it all connects"? Idealist bosses are fairly rare in corporate environments, and most often gravitate to roles in employee and organizational development areas. Examples of Idealist leaders include Mikhail Gorbachev, Oprah Winfrey, and Coach John Wooden.
- Idealists pride themselves on being kindhearted and authentic. Their focus on personal journeys and development can make them inspirational leaders. Idealist bosses are gifted at helping others find their way in life, often inspiring them to grow as individuals and to fulfill their potentials.
- Because Idealist bosses abhor conflict, they usually have highly developed skills in de-escalating tense situations. They are a great help when it comes to conflict resolution.
- They encourage democratic participation within their team. When they ask for team members' opinions in a meeting, they really want to know (and care) what you think, as long as you don't express yourself in an overly negative manner.
In spite of these differences, each type of leader brings some very admirable qualities to the table. If you can recognize these traits in your boss, you have taken the first step toward appreciating the differences about them that can make your relationship stronger and more productive.
If you'd like to discover your own personality type, you can take the Keirsey Temperament Sorter-II (free) at keirsey.com.
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6 Secrets to Successful Schmoozing
You're probably familiar with the necessity of networking in advancing your career. But how well you network often depends on how well you schmooze.
Successful schmoozing isn't glad-handing or insincere sucking up -- although expressing sincere admiration can be an important schmooze tactic. Instead, it's the grease that starts the wheels of networking, according to Susan RoAne, author of "How to Work a Room."
"Schmoozing is nothing more than making casual, easygoing conversation with strangers," RoAne tells Yahoo! HotJobs. "Networking is the art of the follow-up. When you have the schmoozing down, your networking can be effective."
But starting a casual conversation with a stranger -- especially when that stranger has the power to boost your career -- can be nerve-wracking for even the most outgoing people.
Experts have some recommendations for making business schmoozing natural, enjoyable, and effortless (or at least appear that way):
1. Investigate.
Find out who in your profession or related profession could be good to know, and learn more about them. A good start is to find out if they have an online presence, such as social and professional networking sites, according to Barbara Safani, career advisor and author of "Happy About My Resume."
"If you know they're going to be attending a professional event, find a way to attend. And if you learn that person shares an interest with you, say, a love of a sports team or hobby, that's great knowledge you can use to start a conversation."
2. Go beyond the usual suspects.
Plenty of professionals want to meet the CEO, CIO, or C-whoever-can-help. But often those people are deluged with requests, are harder to approach, and may be too high up to advance your career.
John O'Connor, president of Career Pro, Inc., recommends schmoozing administrative assistants. "They're the gatekeepers in most businesses and may have valuable information on the inner workings of the organization. But you always want to project professionalism and good etiquette when schmoozing administrative assistants."
3. Schmooze well before you need something.
If you want the other person to set you up with a job or a new business after a two-minute conversation, set your sights lower. "You don't want to look desperate," says Laura DeCarlo, career coach and author of "Job Search Bloopers."
"Schmoozing should be a warm-up, establishing contact and making the person feel comfortable with you long before you ask for something." DeCarlo adds that the time between initial schmooze and asking for what you really want could be up to six months.
4. Prepare a short self-introduction.
Forget the 15-second "elevator speech" you've heard about, RoAne says. "In less than nine seconds you should give the benefit of what you do, but not the title. If you say something like 'I make sure people have a roof over their heads,' it will arouse curiosity and encourage them to ask a question." It's also a good idea to link your self-introduction to the event, RoAne adds.
5. Focus on the other person.
Studies show that when you ask people questions about themselves, they come away from the conversation with a more favorable impression of you. Then again, don't play 20 questions. If they aren't interested in engaging at all, have a polite exit strategy and move on. And remember, if you are uncomfortable talking with strangers, your new contact may be just as uncomfortable.
6. Stoke the ego, but don't suck up.
It's a fine line between expressing admiration and being obsequious. If you want to give a compliment, whether it's on someone's shoes or their recently published article, try to be genuine and don't gush. If you're not sure how to use flattery well, practice with a friend who can give you feedback.
Good schmoozing opens the possibility of future contact. If a conversation goes well, ask for a business card. If the other person doesn't want to be contacted, don't take it personally. If they provide their information, send a quick, conversational email two days later to remind them about your conversation, RoAne says.
"Then you can ask politely for a small favor," she adds. "You can say, 'I've been interested in learning more about X, and I would love to hear from you if you have some ideas.' A request like that is not big enough to put them on the defensive."
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